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self-conscious? 
anegali
posted Aug 10, 2008 1:58:21 PMTo All

Hello everyone. I am new and like your dialogue. After so many hard work and self-sufficient life without mostly relying on anyone, I am now in a minor turbulence in my life, relationship. I was always on the helping end. I decided to approach few close friends for their advise in confidence to my surprise they shared my issues with other people. It appears they enjoy listening to it; perhaps it makes them feel good about themselves.  Do you think am I being self-conscious?

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self-conscious? 
reluctantexan
posted Aug 11, 2008 9:09:17 AMTo All
I do NOT think you are being self-conscious, but I think your friends did not treat you with the respect you deserve.  Gossip is a negative force. Now they (the friends you confided in) have lost your trust.
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self-conscious? 
anegali
posted Aug 11, 2008 8:16:42 PMTo All
Thank you.
Abe
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RachelRay
posted Sep 13, 2008 9:06:34 PMTo All
Most people do gossip. It is basically human nature to want to share information. We want to be on top of everything and want to appear to be the first to know everything. Some people, however, are like poison in our lives. Maybe we have known these people our whole lives, and care for them. That doesnt mean that they should be in your life. If people are talking smack about you, and making you feel depressed, you should reconsider being friends with them. It is hard to cut people so close to you out of your life. I have gone through this exact thing. I can tell you that i have become much happier and so much more confident since i havent had all the negativity around me.
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